Thanks to Tom for a new word to describe myself:
Ambimasculine: not a flamer, but not a butch man either.
I think that works better than most descriptions. And it goes well with my self description of being "toppish" as well (not a total top, but more towards that way than not).
You see, I don't fit the stereotypes of "top" or "bottom" or "flamer" or "butch" or whatever. I'm usually in between somewhere, so finding a description (past "Oh, it's Moose") is a challenge at times. Thankfully the English language is ever adaptable.
Ambimasculine: not a flamer, but not a butch man either.
I think that works better than most descriptions. And it goes well with my self description of being "toppish" as well (not a total top, but more towards that way than not).
You see, I don't fit the stereotypes of "top" or "bottom" or "flamer" or "butch" or whatever. I'm usually in between somewhere, so finding a description (past "Oh, it's Moose") is a challenge at times. Thankfully the English language is ever adaptable.